Catholic funerals often vary in practices and customs. However, all ensure
that the deceased enters heaven. Three fundamental parts exist: the Vigil, the Funeral Liturgy and the Rite of Committal.
The Vigil
This is more commonly known as the wake. It can be held as early as the morning after the deceased has passed away, or in the days following.
After the passing of the deceased, friends and family gather to reflect and express their condolences to the bereaved. It may include prayers, readings from the Scriptures, and a viewing (i.e. an open casket). Often, the Vigil is held at the home of the deceased or where the funeral Mass is to take place.
The Funeral Liturgy
This is the actual funeral service. The high points are the liturgy and the funeral Mass.
In moderation, sympathy flowers, especially freshly cut ones, are acceptable at a funeral Mass. Often, they are suitable for the Vigil as well.
The celebration of Mass is a key part of the funeral liturgy. It is important to remember that usually only Christian symbols are allowed on or near the casket, so. Modest, tributes, standing sprays and wreaths are suitable as sympathy flowers. Common types of flowers used for such arrangements are roses, carnations and lilies.
The funeral Mass is then followed by the Final Commendation.
The Final Commendation is the prayer in which the people gathered commend the deceased into God’s hands. This will happen around the end of the funeral liturgy. Alternatively, it can be performed during
burial at the Rite of Committal.
The Rite of Committal
This last service is conducted at the final resting place of the deceased.
After the burial of the deceased, a reception may be held where refreshments are served. However, this varies widely and depends upon the family of the deceased.
After the Funeral
Sometimes sympathy flowers may also be sent after the funeral to the home of the bereaved. However, if in doubt, arrange to have them sent for the funeral Mass or Vigil.
