Funeral Flowers
There are many ways to express your condolences and support at the funeral service of someone who’s passed away. One of the most significant ways of doing so is with funeral flowers.
Suitable Funeral Flowers
Flowers have a long history imbued with meaning for various occasions.
The primary types of funeral flowers sent to a service are sprays, bouquets, wreaths and tributes. Regardless of the arrangement, most of the actual blooms used are seasonal. Good etiquette dictates that any flowers be sent prior to the first visitation. In addition, flowers may also be sent in cases when a request has been made for a charitable donation in lieu of flowers, but this should be accompanied by a small donation as well.
Whether sent as an individual or as an organization, the type of arrangement depends a great deal on your relationship with the deceased and their family.
Sprays
A spray is a group of fresh flowers that are tied together. It’s quite similar to a bouquet however, the flowers are arranged flat and meant to be seen from one side only. A funeral spray may be sent by anyone who knew the deceased personally. This includes both individuals and organizations.
There are two main types of sprays: standing sprays and those that are placed on a casket. A standing spray is displayed on some kind of stand and can be sent by anyone. Casket sprays are normally sent by relatives or those close to the family. A full size casket spray will cover the entire coffin while half-sized casket sprays are for the closed part of the coffin during open casket funerals.
Bouquets and Floral Baskets
A bouquet or floral basket is a collection of freshly cut flowers arranged in a vase or basket. These are suitable sympathy flowers for anyone to send. Avoid sending bouquets that aren’t placed in a vase, as they are inappropriate.
Wreaths
A wreath is an arrangement of flowers that is usually circular, though they can also be in other shapes. Wreaths represent one of the more traditional forms of sympathy flower arrangements and may be sent by anyone who knew the deceased personally, including organizations.
For organizations or groups sending sympathy flowers, it’s important to include a sympathy card with a list of names who send their condolences. However, if there are too many names, a single name describing the entire group and an address is generally considered more appropriate. This way, the bereaved have someone to contact to express their appreciation.
Tributes
Name tributes, also known as floral tributes, are common for cremations and are suitable from those closest to the deceased. Since the type of ceremony surrounding a cremation can vary, it is best to find out in advance where it will be held. If a service is not held, they can be sent directly to the home of the bereaved.
Tributes are designed to reflect the character of the deceased. Theme-based, they can focus on religion, nationality, career or interests.
One of the most common arrangements is in the shape of a cross. There are also heart shaped wreaths, cushions and pillows. These can placed on the coffin itself, much like a spray.
After the Service
When you’re unable to send flowers to the service in time, it’s completely acceptable to send them to the home of the bereaved afterwards. Sending flowers after a service you’ve attended also marks a sign of remembrance and ongoing sympathy for them.
In this situation, it’s preferable to send arrangements that are more subdued. Potted plants are a good choice in lieu of a wreath or spray.

