When you order a funeral flower arrangement online or over the phone from your Toronto florist, you can choose to include a message. This message may be printed on a simple piece of paper (free) or a full sized gift/greeting card (for an additional cost of $4.99). Which ever you decide on, it will be included with the funeral flowers.
Losing a loved one is difficult. Expressing your sentiments in a way that touches, rather than offends, the bereaved is imperative. You want to show your support, express your sympathy and provide some sort of comfort. Sensitive words should be used.
Here are some tips:
If you knew the deceased well, general statements can seem cold and insincere. Express your feelings with a personalized statement, such as a memory or specific trait that the deceased had and you admired.
Don’t be judgmental. Your beliefs may not be the same as those of the bereaved. Keep in mind that some people may be hypersensitive at this time, and using statements that include “should” can make the recipient feel angry.
If you want to help the bereaved, include what you can do in the message, and be specific about it. Instead of saying something like, “I’m here if you need me,” say exactly what you can do. For example, say something like this instead: “If you need me to go grocery shopping for you, let me know.”
Express your own feelings and don’t try to express the recipient’s. Even though you may have lost a loved one yourself, you may not be able to adequately describe what the bereaved is feeling.
If you want to include a different card or handwritten note, simply drop by your neighbourhood florist to place your order. Bring your personalized card with you and ask the florist to add it to your order.
